IN RE: Muriel WILSON (2005)

In a child custody proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article 6, the mother appeals from an order of the Family Court, Queens County (Rood, R.), dated July 13, 2004, which awarded custody of the child to her de facto guardians.

ORDERED that the order is affirmed, without costs or disbursements.

 As between a parent and a nonparent, the parent has the superior right to custody that cannot be denied unless the nonparent establishes that the parent has relinquished that right due to surrender, abandonment, persistent neglect, unfitness, or other like extraordinary circumstances (see Matter of Bennett v. Jeffreys, 40 N.Y.2d 543, 548, 387 N.Y.S.2d 821, 356 N.E.2d 277;  Matter of Dungee v. Simmons, 307 A.D.2d 312, 312-313, 762 N.Y.S.2d 514).   The burden of proof is on the nonparent to prove such extraordinary circumstances (see Matter of Darlene T., 28 N.Y.2d 391, 394, 322 N.Y.S.2d 231, 271 N.E.2d 215).   Without a finding of extraordinary circumstances, a determination of what is in the best interests of the child is not triggered (see Matter of Nadia Kay R., 125 A.D.2d 674, 678, 509 N.Y.S.2d 862).

 The mother challenges the Family Court's award of custody of her now-nine-year-old daughter to the child's de facto guardians, who have cared for the child since she was approximately three months old.   In light of the fact that the mother voluntarily surrendered the child, had only sporadic contact with the child before the commencement of this proceeding, and gave no financial or other support to the child's caretakers, we reject the mother's contention that the award was not supported by a showing of “extraordinary circumstances” (Matter of Bennett v. Jeffreys, supra at 548, 387 N.Y.S.2d 821, 356 N.E.2d 277;  see Matter of Pauline G. v. Carolyn F., 187 A.D.2d 589, 590 N.Y.S.2d 124).   Furthermore, the record shows that the child's caretakers have provided her with a consistently stable, nurturing, and supportive home environment, and the child has thrived in their care.   Thus, the Family Court correctly determined that it was in the best interests of the child to award custody to her caretakers, with whom the child had lived almost since birth and with whom according to the Family Court she has “bonded psychologically” (Matter of Dobbins v. Vartabedian, 304 A.D.2d 665, 758 N.Y.S.2d 153;  see Matter of Sienkwicz v. Sienkwicz, 298 A.D.2d 396, 751 N.Y.S.2d 398;  Matter of Commitment of J.N., 158 Misc.2d 97, 601 N.Y.S.2d 215).