IN RE: WILLIAM F.G., Petitioner–Respondent, v. LISA M.B., Respondent–Appellant.
MEMORANDUM AND ORDER
It is hereby ORDERED that the order so appealed from is unanimously reversed on the law without costs and the petition is dismissed.
Memorandum: In this proceeding pursuant to Family Court Act article 6, respondent mother and the Attorney for the Child (AFC) appeal from an order that, inter alia, granted petitioner father's petition to modify a prior order of custody and visitation by naming the father's new wife as the supervisor of his visitation with the subject children and permitting him to designate the location of visitation, including his own home. We reverse.
We note that the prior order, which was entered upon stipulation by the parties after the father was convicted of sexually abusing their then-four-year-old daughter, granted sole legal and physical custody of the children to the mother; required the father's visitation to be supervised by either his therapist, who specializes in sexual abuse, or the maternal grandmother of the children; and specified that visitation was to occur at a location mutually agreed upon by the father and the grandmother.
Preliminarily, we agree with the mother that Family Court erred in drawing a negative inference against her based on her failure to testify at the hearing. The mother had no relevant testimony to offer inasmuch as she had no personal knowledge of the allegations in the modification petition, i.e., the father's completion of sex offender treatment, his compliance with the terms of his probation, his visits with the children, and his marriage to his new wife. Thus, we conclude that a negative inference against the mother was unwarranted because she did not “withhold[ ] evidence in [her] possession or control that would be likely to support [her] version of the case” (Noce v. Kaufman, 2 N.Y.2d 347, 353, 161 N.Y.S.2d 1, 141 N.E.2d 529 ; see Matter of Nassau County Dept. of Social Servs. v. Denise J., 87 N.Y.2d 73, 79, 637 N.Y.S.2d 666, 661 N.E.2d 138  ).
We further agree with the mother and the AFC that the father failed to meet his burden, as the party seeking modification of the prior order, of demonstrating a sufficient change in circumstances since the time of the stipulation to warrant an inquiry into the best interests of the children (see Matter of McKenzie v. Polk, 166 A.D.3d 1529, 1529, 85 N.Y.S.3d 810 [4th Dept. 2018]; Matter of Jones v. Laird, 119 A.D.3d 1434, 1434, 990 N.Y.S.2d 396 [4th Dept. 2014], lv denied 24 N.Y.3d 908, 2014 WL 5394106  ). Although the court correctly identified in its decision the applicable standard for modification of an existing custody and visitation order and referenced several circumstances that generally may support a court's finding of a sufficient change in circumstances, the court failed to make express findings relative to the change in circumstances alleged by the father in his petition. Notwithstanding that failure, “we have the authority to ‘review the record to ascertain whether the requisite change in circumstances existed’ ” (Matter of Allen v. Boswell, 149 A.D.3d 1528, 1528, 53 N.Y.S.3d 432 [4th Dept. 2017], lv denied 30 N.Y.3d 902, 2017 WL 4653468 ; see Matter of Greene v. Kranock, 160 A.D.3d 1476, 1476, 74 N.Y.S.3d 826 [4th Dept. 2018] ).
Upon our independent review of the record, we conclude that the father failed to establish the requisite change in circumstances (see Matter of Avola v. Horning, 101 A.D.3d 1740, 1740–1741, 957 N.Y.S.2d 787 [4th Dept. 2012] ). The father's employment, his lack of a criminal history other than the sexual abuse of his child, his completion of sex offender treatment, his lack of a history with Child Protective Services, and his lack of a mental health diagnosis do not constitute a change in circumstances because those circumstances existed at the time of the parties' stipulation (cf. Matter of Chittick v. Farver, 279 A.D.2d 673, 675, 719 N.Y.S.2d 305 [3d Dept. 2001] ). Although the father's marriage, new home, and diagnosis with sleep apnea are changes that have occurred since the time of the stipulation, those changes to the father's personal circumstances do not “ ‘reflect[ ] a real need for change to ensure the best interest[s] of the child[ren]’ ” (Matter of Isler v. Johnson, 118 A.D.3d 1504, 1505, 990 N.Y.S.2d 746 [4th Dept. 2014] ).
Further, we conclude that, under the circumstances of this case, the children's alleged desire to spend additional time with the father also does not constitute the requisite change in circumstances. Initially, we note that the father's petition did not seek additional time with the children, rather, it sought to change the location of visitation and to have the father's new wife replace the maternal grandmother as visitation supervisor. Even crediting the father's assertion that the children have expressed a desire to spend additional time with him, we conclude that the “ ‘established custodial arrangement should not be changed solely to accommodate the desires of the child[ren]’ ” (Matter of Betro v. Carbone, 50 A.D.3d 1583, 1584, 857 N.Y.S.2d 406 [4th Dept. 2008]; see Matter of Porter v. Nesbitt, 74 A.D.3d 1786, 1787, 902 N.Y.S.2d 760 [4th Dept. 2010]; cf. Matter of Miller v. Shaw, 160 A.D.3d 743, 744, 74 N.Y.S.3d 70 [2d Dept. 2018] ), particularly where, as here, the children are unaware that visitation with the father has been supervised by their grandmother for the last five years because the father was convicted of sexually abusing the daughter and is a registered sex offender.
Even assuming, arguendo, that the father met his threshold burden of demonstrating a change in circumstances sufficient to justify a best interests analysis, we agree with the mother and the AFC that there is no sound and substantial basis in the record to support the court's determination that the children's best interests warranted replacing the visitation supervisor, their grandmother, with the father's new wife and permitting the father to select any location for his visits with the children (see generally Matter of Lara v. Sullivan, 108 A.D.3d 1238, 1239–1240, 970 N.Y.S.2d 161 [4th Dept. 2013], lv dismissed in part and denied in part 22 N.Y.3d 949, 977 N.Y.S.2d 178, 999 N.E.2d 541 ; Matter of Fox v. Fox, 93 A.D.3d 1224, 1225, 940 N.Y.S.2d 719 [4th Dept. 2012] ). “Generally, a court's determination regarding custody and visitation issues, based on a first-hand assessment of the credibility of the witnesses after an evidentiary hearing, is entitled to great weight and will not be set aside” except where, as here, it lacks an evidentiary basis in the record (Matter of Stilson v. Stilson, 93 A.D.3d 1222, 1223, 940 N.Y.S.2d 426 [4th Dept. 2012] [internal quotation marks omitted]; see Matter of McCarthy v. Kriegar, 162 A.D.3d 1563, 1564, 78 N.Y.S.3d 571 [4th Dept. 2018] ).
The record establishes that the maternal grandmother has a long history of successfully facilitating positive interaction between the children and the father while providing meaningful protection to the children. The grandmother had been supervising the father's weekly visits with the children in her home since 2013. The visits lasted between four and eight hours; the grandmother provided crafts and projects for the father to enjoy with the children during the visits; and the father and the children participated in a variety of activities together, such as swimming in the grandmother's pool, watching movies, playing board games, reading, and playing imaginary games. With the grandmother's supervision, the father and the children have eaten meals together and have gone to restaurants to eat with the father's new wife. There were no issues with the grandmother's supervision of the father's visits until the father brought his new wife to the grandmother's home, unannounced, for his routine visit with the children, and the grandmother refused to allow the father's wife into her home. That same day, however, the grandmother brought the children to a restaurant so they could eat with the father and his new wife and visit with them both. In addition, the grandmother testified at the hearing that she would be willing to allow the father's wife into her home as long as she had notice; the grandmother also stated that she would be willing to supervise visits at the father's home. Thus, we conclude that, in light of the five years during which the grandmother successfully supervised visitation, the isolated incident involving the grandmother's unwillingness to allow the father's wife into her home did not warrant modifying the prior order to replace the grandmother with the father's wife as the visitation supervisor.
In addition, the record establishes that the father's wife would supervise her husband's visits with his children through a very different lens than would the grandmother, whose allegiance is to the children. The testimony of the father's wife demonstrates that she did not know the details of the sexual abuse committed by the father against his daughter; rather, her understanding was that “the incident occurred when he was sleeping and he had inappropriate contact with his daughter.” Thus, she believed that he did not intentionally engage his daughter in sexual contact and that the sexual abuse occurred accidentally while the father was asleep. Based on the above and given the father's conviction of sexually abusing the daughter, we conclude that the court's determination that it is in the best interests of the children for the father's wife to supervise visitation at his home or any other location he chooses lacks a sound and substantial basis in the record. We therefore reverse the order and dismiss the petition.
In light of our determination, we do not address the AFC's remaining contention.