IN RE: JOLANDA K., Petitioner–Respondent, v. DAMIAN B., Respondent–Appellant.
Order, Family Court, Bronx County (Tracey A. Bing, J.), entered on or about May 2, 2017, denying respondent's motion seeking visitation and vacatur of a final order, entered on or about January 30, 2017, which, upon his default, granted sole legal and physical custody of the subject child to petitioner-mother, without visitation, unanimously modified, on the law and in the interest of justice, to the extent of remanding for further proceedings on the issue of visitation, and otherwise affirmed, without costs.
While “default orders are disfavored in cases involving the custody or support of children, and thus the rules with respect to vacating default judgments are not to be applied as rigorously” (Matter of Dayon G. v. Tina T., 163 A.D.3d 461, 462, 82 N.Y.S.3d 387 [1st Dept. 2018] [internal quotation marks omitted] ), this policy “does not relieve the defaulting party of the burden of establishing a reasonable excuse for the default” (Matter of Roshia v. Thiel, 110 A.D.3d 1490, 1491, 972 N.Y.S.2d 804 [4th Dept. 2013], lv dismissed in part and denied in part 22 N.Y.3d 1037, 981 N.Y.S.2d 352, 4 N.E.3d 362  ).
Respondent father's excuse that he did not know about two court dates in January 2017 was unreasonable as there was ample evidence that he was present in court when the dates were set, the court made reference at the prior hearing that there were upcoming court dates in January, and the court mailed a notice to appear to the father at his reported address. Because the father failed to establish a reasonable excuse for his default, this Court need not determine whether he established a meritorious defense (see Matter of Ne Veah M. [Michael M.], 146 A.D.3d 673, 674, 45 N.Y.S.3d 455 [1st Dept. 2017] ).
However, the final custody order did not make any provision for visitation, and the father's pro se motion explicitly sought visitation with the child. Family Court implicitly denied this request without providing any rationale. Visitation is a joint right of the child and noncustodial parent and, absent “exceptional circumstances,” it “follows almost as a matter of course,” and is presumed to be in the child's best interest (Weiss v. Weiss, 52 N.Y.2d 170, 174–176, 436 N.Y.S.2d 862, 418 N.E.2d 377  ). The record of the custody hearing established that the father had regular unsupervised and overnight visitation with the child throughout the prolonged custody proceedings, although there were some late pickups and missed visits in the months before the custody order was issued. We note the child's attorney represents that the child strongly wishes to resume visits with the father (see Matter of Michael B., 80 N.Y.2d 299, 318, 590 N.Y.S.2d 60, 604 N.E.2d 122  ). Accordingly, we remand for further proceedings, including a hearing, to determine the issue of visitation between the father and child.