IN RE: James W. BETRO (2008)

 Family Court properly denied petitioner father's petition seeking to modify the existing custody order by awarding primary physical custody of the parties' children to the father, and the court properly granted the cross petition of respondent mother seeking to modify the order by awarding sole custody of the children to the mother.   Addressing first the cross petition, we reject the contention of the Law Guardian that the court erred in modifying the existing joint custody arrangement.   It is well settled that “joint custody is inappropriate [when] the parties have an acrimonious relationship and are unable to communicate with each other in a civil manner” (Matter of Christopher J.S. v. Colleen A.B., 43 A.D.3d 1350, 1350-1351, 842 N.Y.S.2d 627), and this is such a case.   We further conclude with respect to the father's petition seeking primary physical custody of the children that the father failed to establish a change in circumstances reflecting a real need for change in the primary physical residence of the children to ensure that their best interests were served (see Matter of James D. v. Tammy W., 45 A.D.3d 1358, 845 N.Y.S.2d 890).   Although one of the children expressed a desire to live with the father, the “established custodial arrangement should not be changed solely to accommodate the desires of the child” (Fox v. Fox, 177 A.D.2d 209, 211, 582 N.Y.S.2d 863;  see Matter of Johnston v. Bridenbecker, 300 A.D.2d 1062, 752 N.Y.S.2d 496).   We have considered the Law Guardian's remaining contention and conclude that it is without merit.

It is hereby ORDERED that the order so appealed from is unanimously affirmed without costs.

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